Living Away from Mum and Dad
Living with Another Family
If you are under 16, or under 18 with a disability, and live with another adult who looks after you other than your parents then this is called private fostering.
The adult won’t be a relative, but may be a family friend or neighbour; your Mum and Dad may have agreed that they will look after you and may even give them some money to do so.
Just Like Me?
Your Mum and Dad may not be able to look after you at the moment, or you may have made the decision for yourself that you don’t want to live with them.
If you are being privately fostered, your Mum and Dad and the private foster carer will have told Children’s Services about the arrangement so that a Social Worker can support you. It is the Social Worker’s job to make sure you are properly cared for and to check if the person looking after you needs any more help. They may also keep your parents updated on how you’re doing.
If you want to see your parents, your foster carer and social worker will work together to make sure you can.
Living in Residential
When some children and young people go into care, they move away from their parents and into a residential or care home; this means that people work there whose job it is to support you. Residential units come in all different shapes and sizes and you will normally live with other young people who are also in care; you will have your own room and your own space.
Just Like Me?
People have mixed feelings about living away from their family; some children and young people will feel happy and safe, and some children and young people can be a scared and unsure about going to live away from home. If you follow this link you will find some videos about being in care. These are made by young people just like you who have been in care and lived away from home.